“Toileting independence” or “toilet learning” is a skill that a child learns over time. It is a skill that takes practice, like climbing steps, using scissors, pouring milk, and other developmental skills. It’s different from “toilet training.” The main difference is that toileting independence is child directed, and toilet training is adult directed. Toilet training can raise stress for adults and children, lead to power struggles, and harm relationships.

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Download this PDF from Head Start for more information: Toileting Independence in Preschool-age Children